When they get home, they still have to wear many different ‘hats’. They don’t just switch off and relax because the housework still needs to be done, the kids need to be taken care of, the bills need to be paid, the finances need balancing etc. Men on the other hand often go home thinking they have accomplished their roles as a provider and it’s time for them to relax and recharge. One of the things that many women (including myself) do a lot is putting ourselves on the back burner and forgetting to ask for help. Well, we do ask for help but it’s not a straightforward approach that men can understand.